I have nothing but empathy for this perspective. I grew up in Pleasant Grove, so the 2011 Tuscaloosa tornado was beyond an IMBY bias for me. A number of the homes demolished by that tornado are ones that I played in or visited as a child/teenager. One of the few fatalities in Pleasant Grove was someone who I went to church with as a teenager and knew quite well. She was visiting her brother. He survived. Her infant child survived. She didn't. It can be extremely challenging for people to objective in the aftermath of these situations. I don't know that I'll ever accept that the Tuscaloosa tornado was anything less than an EF-5 even though I fully comprehend why it was rated the way it was.
The emotions after an event like this are indescribable. I don't know if Blake S. still posts here, but he and I grew up about a mile away from each other and went to HS together. He knows what it was like to see our neighborhood in Pleasant Grove in the days after 4/27.
The Tuscaloosa tornado, and April 27th, in general, was a 9/11-esque event for me. I had witnessed an EF-3 in Arkansas, and a number of other tornadoes previously, but seeing one destroy places you are emotionally attached to meant it was extremely difficult to be objective. I went to my best friend's neighborhood in Concord immediately after the Tuscaloosa tornado (we're talking 5-10 minutes after the tornado passed through) and that particular neighborhood ended up with over 10 fatalities. To say I'll never forget the scenes from that moment are an understatement. His parents were home when the tornado hit and I still don't understand how they survived when several people on their street were killed.
I say all that to say, I commiserate with Shakespeare2016. However, I sincerely promise him that you, Andy, and others are just being objective. And it's going to be a serious struggle for him to be objective right now. It's the nature of something this personal.
Unfortunately, construction quality in the United States has suffered major quality issues for quite some time now. It's been repeatedly in my face, recently, as I've been working internally in a $150+ million structure my previous employer commissioned (I was part of the engineering team that commissioned parts of the building), over the past month or so.
Shakespeare2016, I promise you the posters here aren't trying to denigrate the damage that happened to area in which you live. As I'm sure you're aware, quality of construction is simply something that is a key part of how tornadoes are rated and compared. Everyone knows the process is far from perfect, but I think the posters on Talkweather are united in wanting to see accurate, replicable, and fair ratings.