As time gets closer to the event, I tend to rely on the HRRR more than anything. Although I will still take a peak somewhat at the NAM, HRRR is definitely the go-to leading up. If we're talking longevity though, to start out for me it goes GFS, then when the NAM runs start to come in, I rely on the NAM and the NAMNST, and then comes in HRRR when those become available. If I had to label the "most consistent model" it would be HRRR.
I admittedly don't look at the RAP as much as I probably should, mostly because it's not the most "sexy" looking model on the planet compared to HRRR/NAM/NAMNST. Also I tend to favor the HRRR when it comes to rapid refresh models.