I don't believe God would contradict himself, so where there are contradictions in the Bible, I attribute that to man. I read the Bible and study how it came about.. the social (especially patriarchy) and governmental structure during the period, tribal customs and traditions, the surrounding historical civilizations, and audience it was written to, combine to establish the context in which I believe it should be read. The Bible can be hard to understand. I used to think I had all the answers.. now I have more questions and realize I will never have a full understanding. That's where faith comes in for me.But are you listening to God about what the bible says or are you listening to man? Huge difference. Man can be deceiving. God, God will never deceive.